'What's for us won't go by us'

ah, cainer seems to be talking al-anon (read spiritual) language!

"What happens if you miss your moment? That largely depends on whether or not it really is your moment. As the old saying goes, 'What's for us won't go by us.' You can't miss your moment. You can only miss a moment that you might have made yours if only you'd been quicker. And yes, I do remember what I told you yesterday about grabbing your chance. But that was yesterday. Either you grabbed it or you didn't. Right now, you can relax. You're going to get what you really need, whether you worry, hurry or just trust."

:)