al-anon steps 10, 11 and 12

"Continued to take personal inventory, and when we were wrong, promptly admitted it."

"Sought through prayer and meditation to improve our conscious contact with God as we understood Him/Her, praying only for knowledge of His/Her will for us and the power to carry that out."

"Having had a spiritual awakening as the result of these Steps, we tried to carry this message to others, and to practice these principles in all our affairs."